TOPIC: THE VIRTUOUS WOMAN
MEMORISE: Proverbs 31:11)
The heart of her husband
doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil..
READ: Proverbs 31:10-31 (KJV)
10. Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies.
11. The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall
have no need of spoil.
12. She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life.
13. She seeketh wool, and flax, and worketh willingly with her hands.
14. She is like the merchants’ ships; she bringeth her food from afar.
15. She riseth also while it is yet night, and giveth meat to her
household, and a portion to her maidens.
16. She considereth a field, and buyeth it; with the fruit of her hands
she planteth a vineyard.
17. She girdeth her loins with strength, and strengtheneth her arms.
18. She perceiveth that her merchandise is good; her candle goeth not out
by night.
19. She layeth her hands to the spindle, and her hands hold the distaff.
20. She stretcheth out her hand to the poor; yea, she reacheth forth her
hands to the needy.
21. She is not afraid of the snow for her household; for all her household
are clothed with scarlet.
22. She maketh herself coverings of tapestry; her clothing is silk and
purple.
23. Her husband is known in the gates, when he sitteth among the elders
of the land.
24. She maketh fine linen, and selleth it; and delivereth girdles unto
the merchant.
25. Strength and honour are her clothing; and she shall rejoice in time
to come.
26. She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of
kindness.
27. She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the
bread of idleness.
28. Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he
praiseth her.
29. Many daughters have done virtuously, but thou excellest them all.
30. Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain; but a woman that feareth the
LORD, she shall be praised.
31. Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her
in the gates.
BIBLE IN ONE YEAR: Micah 1-7
MESSAGE:
Today is my wife’s birthday and there are so many lessons that women, especially young brides can learn from her. She is a powerful woman, I know that. She has many people who take instructions from her, but as powerful as she is, and even though she has seen me in my weakest moments, I have no doubt that I am her head.
It does not matter what is on her itinerary, if I say “I would like you to go with me to so and so place” the best she can do is try to convince me otherwise. If I insist, she would cancel whatever she was to do and come along with me. The Bible in Ephesians 5:23 says: “For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church…”
The husband is the head of the wife. No matter how educated or successful you are, your husband is your head and you must regard him as such at all times. It is a terrible thing for a husband to feel his wife is his head. Many men are misbehaving in their marriages simply because they want to establish that they are the head of their wives.
Also, my wife is my number one fan.
She wrote in the book Mathematics of Marriage – which we coauthored, that as my
help meet she knows she cannot help me without my instructions, so when they
come, her response is “Yes sir”. Busy as she is, she still cooks my meals and
serves me herself. Many young ladies these days leave everything to the house
help.
My wife still trims my nails for me.
There was a time when I was a teacher and was staying far from town. She had to
cut my hair during that period. She is the only partner of the Adeboye
Corporation; she doesn’t delegate her primary duties to anyone else. Just like
the virtuous woman described in Proverbs 31:1-31, I safely rest on my wife.
Anything I uphold, she upholds too. Can your husband rely on you?
Make up for your husband’s weaknesses, celebrate his successes, be his number one cheerleader.
I wish my lovely wife a Happy
Birthday.
KEY POINT:
Wife, your husband is your head; if you take care of the head, the body will be
fine.
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